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Use Risk And Trouble To Make Boredom into Board Fun
September 30th, 2008 | Article by paradox | Family, Recreation and Leisure, RelationshipsBoard games are one of the most popular pastimes in America and around the world. They are a great way for parents, children and couples to have fun together, while strengthening family bonds. And are fantastic learning tools for children and adults alike.
Games like Monopoly, Risk, Life, Clue, and Candyland are proven winners when it comes to family fun. And are a great way for parents to provide learning experiences for their children that are interesting, interactive and most importantly, fun. Board games emphasize skills like math, reasoning, logic, and various social skills. As do other forms of activity, board games can represent nearly any subject.
There are many different types and styles of board games, including those, at the most basic level, that that have no inherent theme such as Checkers as well as more complicated games with definite subjects, or even narratives, like Clue. Most board games involve both luck and strategy. One way to categorize board games is to distinguish those based primarily upon luck from those that involve significant strategy. Most board games for children are based on luck, such as a spin of the wheel or roll of the dice to move forward on to the goal of winning.
Educational board games can be fun and useful tools in the classroom and in a homeschool setting. So, the next time your kids start complaining about school work, maybe it’s time to take a break, pull out that old Scrabble game and have some fun together. Games will also encourage knowledge and interest in our world and others.
As with most toys, choosing board games for kids is mostly a matter of finding something suitable to their age. Some are meant just for kids, others for adults, and many can be enjoyed by people of all ages. Educational software and games are perfect for your kids. Introduce your kids to some old favorites, like Scrabble, which has players rearrange their chosen letters to find new words that can connect with letters of already played words and Pictionary, a game that has players convey the meaning of a word without using letters but instead by drawing pictures. Break out the popcorn as you and your children play a kids board game that will create memories and family bonding.
Board games are by far more entertaining than video games, at least in my experiences. And are a great way to pass the time and spend a fun evening with your loved ones. Board games are also a wonderful way to relieve everyday stress. Games that will be played repeatedly for years to come will be well worth the money spent, and the memories of laughter will be priceless.
Surviving Terrible Toddler Tantrums, or Die A Screaming Death
September 26th, 2008 | Article by paradox | FamilyYou scream, he screams, I scream, she screams, we all scream for ice cream, and everything else in the world of childhood desires. Every parent from the beginning of time, starting with Adam and Eve, whose kids were raising cane on a consistent basis, know of the temper tantrum. And the guilt and frustration that has plagued parents for eons. We will look at ways to minimize tantrums and separate ourselves from the cycle of destructive reactions of them.
Those seemingly uncontrollable outbursts of rage, instantly appears anytime little Johnny doesn’t get what he wants and when he wants it. Outbursts and temper tantrums by young children are used to express a range of feelings like hunger or frustration. At that point, temper tantrums can be considered a normal part of growth and development. It’s very important for parents to understand it’s a young child’s way of expressing his emotions, in a way not otherwise expressed through his limited language abilities. Tantrums in toddlers are a completely NORMAL phase of early childhood adolescence.
Temper tantrums can be near impossible for some first time parents and untrained childcare personnel to deal with, which can bring on feelings of frustration, anger, embarrassment, severe guilt, and failure. Which if not dealt with properly may lead to methods of punishment of the child ,that could be considered abuse. Both physically and mentally, that can have serious ramifications throughout the child’s life.
Temper tantrums can occur for many reasons, but are often a result of the child feeling stressed and frustrated, hungry, tired, or over-excited. Temper tantrums can range from constant whining to laying on the floor kicking and screaming and hitting.
The best way to deal with temper tantrums is to prevent them in the first place, whenever possible. Dealing with temper tantrums takes a calm and detached position for the adult. So make sure you are well rested and take time away from the child whenever possible, so the you can keep a reasonable calm perspective of the situation. If you react to the tantrum with a tantrum, the situation will only get worse and prolonged.
Toddlers are not able to use words to express their feelings so they will often throw temper tantrums, especially if they are tired, frustrated or angry. Make sure the child has all their basic needs met, and don’t forget the diaper.
If you think a temper tantrum might be coming, try:
Distracting or redirecting your child’s attention to something else. Most young children have a short attention span and will easily be redirected to another activity or toy.
Using a sense of humor to distract your child. This may help you cope, too. Laughter is one of the best medicines for a runaway raging toddler.
Giving your child control over small things by giving him or her a choice. Showing your child he has some control over his ever-increasing awareness of his environment gives him security and teaches independence.
Taking your child to a quiet place and speaking softly to him or her. By removing the child from the area which cause him frustration, and gently try explaining to him why he might want to calm down. Remember though a child does not reason like you do, the understand much more than you think.
Encouraging your child to express emotions and feelings with words. The more the child can verbally express his


