When you’re going through everyday life sometimes it seems like everything is against you having anytime for yourself or for the people you love.  Everything happens for a reason so when you’re super busy at work you will reap the rewards of being able to relax when you are able to spend some time alone or with your family and friends.  When you have a bunch of down time that usually means that you will be super busy later so enjoy it while you can.

The universe has a way of balancing everything out so when something bad happens you can rest assured that something good is around the corner.  For instance if you lose your job that means you can spend more time at home with the people you love and it is probably the universe telling you that you need to slow down and take it easy for a while.  You will get another job when you find the thing that you are supposed to do.  Sometimes we all get too busy to really live so the universe makes it so we have to.

We go about our lives working and sleeping and we don’t really ever get a chance to go out and do things that we liked to do when we were younger and had all our bills paid by our parents.  When all you have to do is discover and dream that’s all you want to do.  When you have to work to do things all you want to do is sleep.  It’s a vicious circle.  The way to over come this is by thinking about what you always planned to do when you were little and try to do it when you have the chance.  Time off doesn’t always have to be nap time.

Here are a few things to help you from getting into that slump.

* Write a list of things that you want to do that you have never done before.

* Write a list of things that you love to do but don’t get to do very often.

* Pick something off each list when you get time off and do it.

When you set goals you feel like you’re accomplishing something even when it’s just goofing off.  If it’s on the list you can cross it off and you have accomplished something.  You have gone out and done something to expand your horizons and you were not in front of the TV watching other people do it.

When you do things for yourself it makes you better at the things that you do for other people.  For instance your job.  When you are feeling like you’re in a rut and you don’t every get out and do anything you start to wear down and get cabin fever which makes you no good for anyone.

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This entry was posted on Thursday, November 6th, 2008 at 2:16 am.